I remember when I did my first piece of research in the field. I was scared. Really scared. Now this had nothing to do with conducting the research itself. Nothing to do with asking participants questions, showing them the product or website that we would be investigating.
My anxieties revolved around finding people to actually test on. Finding people to say ‘yes’. The fear of rejection, the embarrassment of being shunned or ignored by a member of the public was mildly terrifying.
I imagined myself in the shoes of those poor people in my town centre who have tried to convince me that Scientology was the answer, or tried to sell me life insurance. ‘Can I ask you a quick question?’ ‘Can I have 2 minutes of your time?’ All of whom I smiled at politely (as I stared into their uninspired and clearly bored eyes), and pretty much ignored.
Why? Because I was too busy to answer their questions or engage in a conversation I just couldn’t be bothered to have. They may have been offering me something truly amazing, a life changing solution to my problems, but their approach was all wrong.
